The Double Life..

Sometimes I feel like I am leading a double life. I havent put my all into the game because I have been around people who wouldn't quite understand what I am doing and why. I have been lying to my family and sneaking around and I cant stand it.

I am a grown woman with responsibilities, goals, ambition, all that jazz but I feel like I'm in high school all over again at the same time. Makes me not want to be around my family at all.

I finally found a house, so that will all come soon enough and sneaking around will be a thing of the past.

Everything is slowly falling into place for me.. again... :P




(I just wish I didnt have to sneak around now cause things would have gone a hell of a lot faster!!)

Oh Mah Gah!!!

OMG!! I'm jumping the gun here and blogging a little too soon as usual.. lol But I had to post something about this guy.

*Drools*

Been chit chatting for a few days and I have been drooling over his pics!! This man is the meaning of SEXY! Ughh I cant stand it. All the SDs that I have met so far have been on the verge of being elderly with one Mr. Niceguy actually being grandpa age! Or they have been just butt fuckin ugly, maybe just ok looking... It is so refreshing to see that there are men who I would hit on and fuck the shit out of without any strings/allowance attached!

God this man is so fuckin sexy. Big muscles, great smile, good size dick... & he sends me a new pic with every email. I'm getting a little hot & bothered over here! lmao His allowance is 5 grand monthly. Not bad at all, he just dont know!

I haven't had sex in a few months and I def would give it to him if we get that far.

Oh, a few of my previous pots who didn't really go anywhere with me have contacted me and I am wondering if I should give them the time of day. Hmmm... We will see.


In other non-sugar news, my ex, who I have blogged about, the young guy I have been seeing since last Dec. has been calling me. I think this boy is seriously in love with me. I never took him seriously before when he would say he loved me because he is so young, and because of our circumstances I don't think he knows what he wants.

I'm starting to believe him.. But the thing is, I do not want for there to be anything more than what there was before. My life is way to complicated for that. As we all know... I think I'm going to have to add another to my list of broken hearts. :P


I met this new guy online, fine, young, almost my type.. lol I like em dark for some reason. I have a love for all kinds of men but there is nothing like a sexy, large, dark skinned stallion. mmm yum! I wonder if I could find a replica of my BD here without all the drama and completely NSA.

I wonder if I could even find a guy and keep him as my fuck toy without him wanting more.. I have never been successful with that in the past. They always want more. ugh

ok anywayz about the new guy. Hes an army boy, my age, college student. He is brown skinned, not dark. Meh I can work with that. He's really cute and I think if the Hot Pot (Think I found his name) from above doesnt get it first Ima give it to him just cause I'm so damn horney.. :P

Men...                                                                                                                                          

Pink penis?

It was pink... ahaha

At least it wasn't smaller than my 2 yr olds like Mr. Niceguy... :P

Ok... I need to stop talking about people's unfortunate circumstances... haha I'm so rude sometimes...

Anyway, I went to see my SD Mr. TEP last week. He showed me around and we ended up in an empty room... Nothing much happened on my part... lol, but all I can say is that he left satisfied... haha He's so easy. We talked for a little bit and walked around some more. I love the city. IDK what it is about it.

He stuffed a wad of $20s in my pocket. I love how everytime we meet he gives me more cash than the last time just for meeting. Yea so as far as the actual allowance goes, he is setting up an account for me to use in any way i like... We will see... :/

I'm finally meeting up with my SD this weekend! I'm so excited!! Details later...
*muah*


ETA:
I am having the hardest time figuring out how to wear my hair. Should I wear my natural hair out, pretty and curly? Or should I wear it straight and long?
I dont know if he would be into the natural look, having only seen me with long straight hair... But alot of men are. I usually get tons of compliments and interest when I wear my natural hair.
Decisions, decisions...

Bad, bad SB!!

I've been neglecting my sugar daddy... Bad!

I have my reasons for not contacting him for days at a time. Its not because he does not interest me... IDK...

I guess I just need some me time. Once I sort everything out in my life I will be fine and he can have me whenever he likes. lol

But right now, I just need for him to be patient.

Has anyone ever felt that way?? Or am I the only one?

I'm going to have to visit him some time this week though, so he doesn't forget about how infatuated he is with me... hehehheee

The date...

Yea, so me and Mr. TEP went on our second date. Great time. He makes me laugh and I really enjoy spending time with him. I drove out to meet him. It was late so we went to a bar and got a drink and some food.

It was funny that as we were ordering our drinks the waiter was winking at me and trying to get my attention while my date was sitting right there. I thought that was hilarious! We talked for about 2 hours and then he drove me to the beach.

Mind you it was kinda in the middle of no where I had no way of knowing where I was and how to get back to my car which was parked up waiting for me to come back. Bad things kept flashing in my mind. You always hear those stories about a young woman getting murdered and left on the side of the road... I tried not to think that way. I had my pepper spray and I do know how to fight having been in an abusive relationship... Gosh, I couldnt live out there at all myself. I dont care how nice the houses are. ughh...

Anyways...

We got to the beach and we kissed and cuddled. He told me he didnt want to move too fast just yet. I dont know if I was relieved or disappointed by that. lol After our romantic time together we went back to my car, he gave me $200 and filled up my gas tank and I was on my way home.

Truthfully, I am ready to make this more serious. Lets establish a monthly allowance already!! Sheesh!! haha!

Taking things slow...

I dont know if I can claim that Mr. TEP is actually my SD as of yet. But we are currently working on what this is going to be. So far he has told me that all my expenses are going to be covered as I finish school. He wants to take things slow as far as the physical aspect of the relationship goes.

We are supposed to be looking at Apts together for me next week... We will see about that. Plus I'm still looking have not found what I'm looking for just yet. He also wants to go over my college transcripts to help me get into the right school. How sweet. :P

We have only met twice so far, and have been speaking for months. The relationship is definitely blossoming. I like him a lot as a person and I know he likes me. He has told me so many times. :)

Right now it seems to me that he may be the real deal. He has been nothing but a gentleman the entire time I've known him. You know how you meet some of these people and just know right off that they are looking for only one thing... Sex is all that is on their minds. With this guy, I have not felt that in any way! Surprising, to me at least.

I think that this just may be what I have been looking for. Just maybe...


One thing that I think I will never get used to..

Stubble. It feels like my skin was being scraped by sandpaper when I kissed him. So not used to that, an I really dont like it. Keep that shit smooth, please! or grow a goatee... My lips still hurt. :P

The Perfect Sugar Daddy

So I wrote out this whole post on how I think I may have fotnd the Prefect SD... But something happened and it got erased when I hit publish. ughh.. Oh well! There is nothing set in stone yet but I will give all the details after our meeting in the beginning of the week.

Oh yea, dont you just love how things can just be sitting there staring you in the face and you never think about them or dont seriously pursue them until way later. To think I have wasted all these months and Mr. TEP could actually be the one. yea yea...




Aside from that, after my usual blog stalking I want to say that the SB blogger community should support one another. Everyone goes through tough times and nothing that we say about it is going to change that. We can't always walk in eachothers shoes and judging someone's life based on a few words written in a simple online blog/journal is not productive.

I myself have come across so many obstacles in my life and absoultely nothing that anyone had to say helped me one bit. I had to take it upon myself to ignore everyone's opinion of how I was living MY life and do everything that I could so that things would not be forever fucked up.

Also, whatever opinions someone had about me based on what I wrote online.. Please! Seriously, go to hell because I have never told my whole life story anywhere online. Not refering to this particular blog... But its funny how people assume they know everything that goes on in someones life based on one or two blog posts or a video, ect...

I guarantee you that there is much much more to the story.

All that to say, dont judge when you dont know the entire story first of all. You just make an ass of yourself in the end. I hate judgemental people.. ughh..

Secondly, when you find yourself in a bad place in life, please do not focus on the negative. Always have a backup plan. Always continue to plan and work towards your future. Time will never stand still and sitting around and waiting for something to happen will just make things worse. Bills will only pile up, the longer you wait the more you will owe.


Ok, enough of the self help crap!! Its time to potty train my baby!! Hes pulling off his doody diaper!!! Eeewwww.........

Wish me luck on that one... :P

TakeliaSB

Chemistry...

So I've been taking care of business and have not done much as far as my sugar search goes. Have not spoken to any pots in a while but, shit I gotta handle my shit first before I can put myself into any type of relationship. You know.

Recently I began msging back and forth with this guy and I could tell what he wanted from the beginning. So we met tonight for drinks...

At the end of the 'date' he says to me, you are a beautiful girl but, he does not think that we have chemistry. ok...

Sometime I just don't get what that means. I made it clear that I was not looking for anything long term. Maybe just a few rolls in the sack some $$$ in my pocket and that would be it.

He was obviously attracted to me, kept touching my leg inching closer & closer, kissed me a few times on the cheek. Maybe it was the fact that he could tell that I was not attracted to him. Err uhh... I need to learn to hide my disgust sometimes.. lmao!

But seriously! I understand the need for chemistry if you are looking for a long term sugar relationship, but if you are merely looking for a quick fuck what the fuck does chemistry have to do with it. I can fake my way through anything if I have to. The last one didn't notice one bit!!

This is why I'm still contemplating escorting... That shit is so annoying to me. Maybe I should hold off on the sugar for a little while and come back when I'm not so.... distracted... disgusted... idk lol I'll figure it out.

Temptation...

A little while ago I posted about being an escort. For the past few days I have been searching and reading as much as I could on the subject. I am following a few escort blogs and their experiences are very interesting to me. I came across another blog where a former escort talks about the bad side of it all.

I do respect her views and opinions but I am still seriously contemplating getting into it... At least small time.

My reasoning??

• I love sex! I am never satisfied... Sad none of my boyfriends could ever keep up with me except my kids father.

• The money is fantastic! & we all know why we are here.. I LOVE money! $$$

• I would be able to work whenever I want. I don't need a million dollars so I'm sure I would never let it consume my life.

• Many talk about how their relationships are with men.. Well I don't want a relationship! I don't want to get married! Not a factor for me...

• What reason do I have not to?? 

The question is will I actually go through with it? Will I create my own website and post my ads? Hmmm.. Time will tell.. And knowing me I will probably do it sooner rather than later.

Shit, I kinda already got it all planned out...

Cursed with bad luck... FML

So I left last night feeling great with high hopes that it was going to be a night to remember. I quickly made my way to the GW bridge but as I was passing the last exit I could have gotten off at the traffic came to a halt...

I heard sirens and saw emergency vehicles as I approached at about 2 miles per hour... There was an accident!! So basically I was stuck in traffic for almost 3 hrs at a stand still then when I finally got to the GW there was only one cash only toll lane open I didnt make it over the bridge until 2 hrs after I was supposed to be meeting Mr. TEP.

To make a long miserable story short, I missed out on meeting my pot for the night. It was horrible... So bad I cried... Yes.. I cried...

Meeting..

I'm in the city finally and my main pot spends his weekends at his beach house about an hr & a half away..

*sigh*

So here I go, traveling again, on my way to meet my fave Mr. TEP. Oh yes.

Back with details later!!

Allowances??

I have been having the hardest time trying to figure out exactly how much I want to ask as my monthly allowance. Originally I said I would be happy with $2,000-3,000 a month. That was back when I was paying less for rent and only had car insurance, no note and a phone bill.

Recently I said I would love to receive $5,000 a month.

That would cover all my expenses and where Im from I would be living like a fuckin queen!!

However, since I am moving.. My expenses have changed. I do not know exactly how much I am going to be paying for rent but I'm looking at anywhere between $1,000 and $4,000 depending on where. I need to be in at least a 2 bdrm apt. Would love to get a whole house though...

So in reality I am a one man woman but since I left the father of my children a few years ago I have been enjoying the single life. Although I'm not promiscuous.. I always have multiple men in my life. The problem I have with that is that none of them can handle being just friends.. They always want more.

What does that have to do with it? It has taught me how to juggle multiple men at once and ways to get what I want from them. At the moment I actually have.. Let me count, 7 pots I think, that I have been conversing with on a regular basis. Three of which I am seeing this weekend possibly.

I do not like pay per meeting arrangements but many men out there prefer to do things that way. At least at first. I have been offered anywhere from $100- $1,000 per meeting. I have only gone through with it twice. I feel like anywhere under $500 is a waste of time but at the same time I know my worth and $500 does not satisfy me.

Truthfully with that I feel like a cheap hooker but that seems to be a common figure that these fools tend to offer... If the SD offering that amount actually wanted to meet often, say twice a week or more, I would actually be comfortable with that. However if it only on occasion... thats a different story.

I have posted a poll in the side bar and ask my fellow SBs to participate. If you are meeting someone on a per meeting basis what is the lowest amout that you would accept from that person?

Does it depend on the SD? Do you feel like anything less than $500 is worth your time??

As for the monthly allowance. I think the amount should equal double your monthly expenses. That way your bills are paid, you can save a little as well as be able to enjoy other luxuries. This would be ideal for a non-working SB, a college student or a hard working mom, such as myself, who needs a break.

Also, by saving the other half or some of it... you will be able to take care of things for a little while until you acquire another source of income if things go sour with the current SD.

Another question. If a SD cannot afford your monthly allowance(which he should! :P) should you drop him and find someone who can? Or do you keep him as a little side dish for extra cash. Many are not very fond of juggling multiple SDs. As for myself if I can get a few who are offering at the very least $2,000 monthly I would be happy. This gives a little variety so you dont get bored or frustrated being with one man.

If at one point you feel you need a bigger allowance and your main SD cant provide it you, a second or third SD may be the one to provide it to you. Whats the point of being in a monogamous sugar relationship? lol Sugarship?? ha!

Juggling relationships can be difficult sometimes, but as for me I'm good! I keep my house off limits so no unexpected visits. Many do respect that because I do have kids, they know damn well we aint getting busy with babies in the other room! haha

I dont vary my stories much that way I dont forget what I told to who because I basically told them all the same thing..

My excuse for all of this.. Hey I'm young, beautiful, have not had much time to live my life so now Ima do me, Ima have fun, Ima make money the easy way. Been struggling for way too long and now its my time!

TakeliaSB♥♥

Moving..

I hate moving but I have to... After everything that has happened to me over the past couple weeks, few months, and 2 years... OMG!! I am so tired of it all.. I have better family in NYC that actually care about me and my children and where we are going in life I have absolutely NOTHING keeping me here!!

The only thing that I could say could keep me is the fact that it is cheap as hell to live here!! All my bills... Everything!! Including the extra crap such as cable & internet (which I dub as a necessity hehe) are covered with $1,200 a month. Shit I would be good if I cud find a SD in my area who could provide even $1,500 I would be happy. No luck there...

Shit, I've been apt searching in NYC and havent found anything yet but I am leaving this tuesday, as long as I dont have any extra bullshit to deal with. I'm going to stay with family until I find a place. Put my babies in school and search for a job as well as the perfect SD.

I wonder if I should also look in Jersey. Wonder how the rents are there vs NY...

Given my situation I have not been as available for my current pots and a few have fallen off the burner. But there are many more fish in the sea so its all right.

This is going to be quite a journey. Wish me luck!! And lots of $ugar!! hehe..

Oh shit I forgot to mention.. Mr. Niceguy although sweet as can be is a big ass liar(not that serious). He recently published a book and gave me a copy.. He told me he was 62... In his book it says hes 73! And he tried to scratch it out!! haha Who gives a fuck!! He also told me his wife died like 10yrs ago... err uhh.. His wife is still alive & they live in LI somewhere :P

Why do some people feel the need to lie about shit like that?? Dont you know thats the last thing on my damn mind??

On a side note I do love browsing NYC's craigslist. These men & women crack me up with all their fantasies. lol Maybe one day I will muster up the courage to actually meet someone from there. Make sure we meet at an overly expensive restaurant for the initial meeting... Make him dish out some serious cash in the very beginning.. hehe

Ughh.. I really cant wait to get my life together. I dont understand why people around here keep causing problems for me. The main people being my own damn parents! Just let me live my life!! Sheesh!!!


TakeliaSB♥

The smallest penis I have even seen...

WoW!! What a week!! As I said before.. The drama is never ending in my life... I got back home, from a great time in NYC, yesterday & I just cant seem to get a day off of the nonsense! I go to pick up my kids from their GM and had to call the cops cause the bitch refused to let me have them!!! OMG.. My mom was on the phone eggin her on, talkin her ear off, lying and saying whatever she can to make me look bad. Long story... Don't ask cause I myself don't know why. :P

OK. So about NYC...
I made it there finally and was able to finally meet these fools I have been talking to for so long. Lets get to the first. Hmm, what should I name him?? Mr. The Easy Part. Mr. TEP for short.. Why?? Because he kept saying paying bills was the easy part, and that it was a connection is what he was lookin for. He wanted to meet someone that he WANTED to help

Yea, so we met at this cute little bistro type restaurant. The food was great! We had a wonderful long conversation and he definitely wanted to see me again. He wants to know if we have that chemistry, which basically means he wants to fuck me. haha

Oh yea! He did give me $100 for coming out to meet him. Not much but shit I hate when you spend your money or do whatever to make your way to meet them and they don't even give you gas money or cab fare. So annoying!! Am I right?!?

I didn't give him any specific date but I am planning on seeing him this weekend, hopefully.
Ok that was a little boring. lol but basically it went well. Now for the juicy stuff.

That same night I met up with another SB friend. We went to the sugar party together. It was a great time and there were a lot of great people there. As for pots.. Mehh.. It was alright. There wasn't anyone there who really interested me. A few approached me and I kinda blew them off. One guy who was there actually sent me a few msgs on SA but we never got the chance to meet up. I still have his number and am thinking about giving me a call. He told me I look like Lena Horne. :P yea ok..

Ughh omg this one guy, a bit younger, approaches me and hes like, so this is what you like huh? I'm like what are you talking about? Hes like, you like elderly men huh? You want someone who looks like that?!? *pointing in the dierction of some grey hair older man* Ughh he himself looked completely crazy and he kept talking crazy until he took a hint n left me alone...

All in all I did have a good time and I will attend another in the future.

I finally made my way home around 12 that night and crashed hard! Woke up the next day handled some business and made my way into Manhattan. I had 2 dates scheduled for that day. One at 4:30 the other at 7:30.

The first date was supposed to be a young blond and her SD. They were looking for a 3rd. I was a little curious so without much info I agreed to meet at a little cafe on Park ave. Apparently she backed out of it. And only he showed up. When he walked through the door I was thinking 'God I hope that's not him!" He was Old as shit!!

He sat down and we ordered coffee. There was little conversation. He kept pausing for long periods and looking in one direction. I think he has to be losing his mind. It was so strange. Then after about 15 mins he said, "I have $500 reasons for you to come back to my place for an hr."

O.o...

I told him I wanted $1,500!! Haha Hoping that he would say no... Which worked!! lol He paused for like 5 mins like he had to think about it then he said thanks for coming and handed me $200.. Then threw another $20 on the table for the $5 coffee we ordered and told me to take care of his bill, which I did.

It was the weirdest meeting I have ever had. There was no conversation. No getting to know each other. Nothing. Just, I want to have sex with you because I like the way you look.. I am NOT a Hooker!!

I felt so good about not having to do anything for that $200 that I went and got a Mani & Pedi from this little nail shop I was passing by. The lady who did my nails was so adorable, she could not understand english and she took her time and made sure I was well taken care of. By the time I was finished it was time for me to meet up with my final pot of the weekend I rushed and grabbed a cab and made it just in time!

Now this guy, old as dirt! Yet sweet as can be! I'm going to call him Mr. Niceguy. The restaurant was very, very nice and probably one of the most expensive I have been in so far... So far.. :P  The food was so good!!

He told me I'm more beautiful in person than in my pictures. We had great conversation.. well he did, as I let him do damn near all of the talking. I really need to catch up on my politics because when I meet some of these people I feel like I have absolutely nothing to talk about! Which I always fake it anyway. Give a little input and let them talk their head off. haha!

So after a great dinner, which lasted 3 fucking hours!!! He said to me that he would like to start our arrangement right away.. I told him no initially, but uh.. Yea he kinda ended up talking me into it. We went back to his hotel and all he wanted to do was eat my cooch!!

He gave me $600 just to put his face in my pussy!! The only reason I did it was because I do have bills that were due within the next few days. And between that and the $300 I already had I was good!! The head was horrible! I moaned just to make him think I came so he would stop... lol Which didn't really work because after he stopped initially he asked if I would like some more, to which I replied 'no I'm alright' as polite as I could.. But then he insisted that he makes me come again :(

Ughh it was disgusting! I made sure he had all the lights off so that he couldn't see how hard I was rolling my eyes and screw facing him as he was down there...

He wanted me to touch him and I was amazed at how small... his penis was!!! I have never.. ever... in my life!!! Ever seen one so small... I wonder how the fuck he was able to have kids!! Like how the hell could you even get inside of someone being that small!!! You should have seen my face... priceless..

 He wants to see me once a week... I'm not sure on that one... His budget is a little low and my thing is, if your going to try and eat pussy you need to know a little bit about what your doing. But truthfully, his allowance alone is enough to cover all my bills with money left over so I don't think I should rule him out completely until I see what others have to offer me.

I am going to call Mr. TEP to see when he wants to meet up and go from there. So all in all I had a great week minus the extra family drama. I made $900 in 2 days! How can I complain about that!! Yay for NYC pots!! So much easier..

Ok I'm going to sleep.. TTYL!!

TakeliaSB♥

NYC Craigslist sugar

Lets see what I can find here..

Surprisingly there are a few that have peaked my interests... Sending replys now!! haha
These ads are way too funny!! I'm LMFAO over here! ahahahaha!!!!!!!

Maybe I should also post one of my own... :P

I NEED MONEY!!! LOL

Neverending DRAMA!!!

I just dont get it....

No matter what I do, where I go, who I talk to... Drama surrounds me. I end relationships with peole who I think are not good for me. Make new friends. But still no matter what I do, I just cant seem to get away from it all.


I came to the city so that I could try a way to make a better life for me and my children. Back home even though I have what would be considered a good paying job there. I'm still only just paying the bills. I dont have alot of money for other things. So I left. I'm here. And how much progress have I made since coming?? Very little!!

Ughh..

This is so disappointing...

But let me tell you why... I told whoever needed to know that I was leaving to find a damn job. But on some real shit, no one I know wants me to succeed in anything I do. I really cant tell you why... But from the very second I left drama!! And somehow all the bullcrap that they were sayin got around to my ENTIRE family!!! So everyone is straight doggin me!! Hard body!!

I dont understand... what the hell do you people want me to do. Be a stay at home mom?? If I do that who the fuck is going to pay the fucking bills in my household!?!? Please tell me that!!

On top of that crap that was goin on.. The next day even more shit went down!!! Now this shit was completely unnecessary!! And completely fucked up!! Now its like I told you so on their part, but Im like if you dumb fucks would have said yes to begin with none of this shit would be an issue!!! But people want to be stupid. And do and say whatever because they think by sayin no that I not gon do wtf I have to do...

It was nothing serious to begin with.. but in the end it turned for the worse.. yet all of this could have been avoided if people werent so damn stupid and did what I asked them to do in the first place!! I mean damn!!

Im not leaving until Tuesday and in that time I have 4 dates and the sugar party to go to... I really am not tryna miss out on any of that. And if I can get something serious goin I'm not going back. I will get my kids and bring them all down here and we will stay here away from all the stupid ass ignorant people back home.

OMG!!!

Its so bad.. I really dont know how much more I can take of that crap...

FML

Cut out to be an Escort??

Being the person that I am I have done a little digging into the lives of high end escorts. This story has intrigued me... among others. ;)








I have done pay for play one time. If I would have gotten the kind of money that these women are talking about I would not have regret it in the least bit. Don't know if I would do it now but I am looking for a stable SD/SB relationship. I want to be sure of things such as my safety and my income. Even though I am putting myself at risk by meeting some of these men I do wonder what the future holds for me. Will I actually bring myself to actually become or at least dabble in being an Escort? I don't know but I cant say that I wouldn't if given the opportunity...

P.S. I love that Amazon sells every single book I have come across!! I'm adding this to my wish list. Love building my book collection.. If only these kids would stop ripping out pages... :}

This one looks interesting also...

My voice

Google is a wonderful thing. I have a great relationship with Google as should everyone else.

Because of google I am now not so afraid to give out my phone number!! Why you ask??

Because of Google Voice!

A little while back I had a few little stalker incidents both in real life and in the sugar world. Because of it I ended up getting a second phone and cutting my main phone off until I thought it was safe to use again. :P Didn't want to change/lose my number... Have had it since 2006. :) Plus I like my phone company even though their call in customer service sucks big hairy balls...

I used the second phone which was a cheap little pay per day/use type of thing with a cheap ass company. I hated it! Calls kept dropping. Txt msgs not sending or sending multiple times... It was horrible!

After catching up on my Favorite Sugar blogger Goal Digger I discovered Google Voice through one of her posts. The capabilities of this online application are wonderful and I can keep one phone and not have to worry too much about stalkers and crazy people!! Yay!! :P (or walking around with a cheap ass phone when I have a way better one, looking all suspicious...  :\ )

You can easily block people with a click of your mouse, which with my current phone company its a little more hard to do.

A great feature that I am loving, you can listen in on the voicemail someone leaves AS THEY ARE LEAVING IT!!! The voicemail is also transcribed into txt for you and you can listen to it online when you log into your account.

You can change you number just like that and can choose a number in any area code you like!! *sigh*

Since I made my account I like to pretend that I really live in NYC... hehe Hey I have a (347) area code. Why not?!? Pots don't know the difference.. lol

I love Google...

https://www.google.com/voice/

iPad, Gift Daddy & another sugar party...

I'm messaging back and forth with this guy and I notice at the bottom of his email it says:

"sent from iPad"

OMG!! I want one soooooo damn bad!!! Ok, ok so I do already have the iPod Touch but whats wrong with having the same thing but just wayyyy bigger???? LMAO I did mention it to him and he said thats what a SD is for!! So maybe I can squeeze one out of him... hehehee

He also stated that he loves buying shoes for his SBs. Seems to have a huge shoe/foot fetish. Knew about designers and everything! Hmmm... a Gorgeous pair of Louboutins??? Could be in the near future for me... We will see. He seems like a strictly gift daddy which I would absolutely LOVE!! Not very good looking but who cares!!

He is up there in age, married, no kids, and very upfront and sweet as can be! I hope we click in person because we really hit it off online. We are scheduled to meet during the week sometime.

Another thing. I received an email on SA about being a Hostess at the next sugar party. I wasn't originally planning on attending this one because the price of the tickets are double what they were last time. But if I can get in for free then hey! Why not?

I wonder how many people got that email...

SD V. SA

I have noticed that men on sugardaddie.com are way more persistent then the men on seeking... Why is that?? I also find it funny that many of them are actually looking for real girlfriends ect... I always make it a point to ask what type of arrangement they are looking for.

I also had to LMFAO at the guy who said he just wanted me as a sex slave and wasn't going to give me any kind of compensation for it.. WOW! What world are you from?? Haven't heard from him since I told him how much I wanted monthly. Guess he couldn't afford it.. Oh well!

Quick update tho: I'm setting up dates for the weekend and hopefully during the week. It will be great if I can get some serious pots to meet up with. Would love to come home with a little cash on hand, u know.

Ps. I want this book!! Who wants to buy it for me?? :P
Ima get it sooner or later though. :)

I need new friends!!

I broke my friendship with T. If you read my blog then you may know that she is.. or was... my Best Friend. We did everything together. I did everything for her. But she took advantage and what really did it for me was when I called her to ask her a question she snapped at me and tried to cuss me out...

Over something very minor. Tryna show off in front of other people. She would never snap at me to my face cause she knows how I get down. She knows I would beat that ass easily... But thats besides the point. For her to come at me the way that she did after all the shit that I do for her, after all the money that she owes me, after how many years we have been best friends, its like a stab in the back on top of all the other stuff.

But oh well, this way I wont have to worry about anyone else anymore. The only issue I really have is that I lost my main clubbing buddy.

I need new friends!! I would actually love some friends that are in the sugar world... ;)

Or at least some friends that have their shit together. I refuse to hang out with broke ass people anymore cause all they try to do is tear you down. There is absolutely no need for anyone to hang around people who are not on their level because all they will try to do is tear you down.

And most of all Best Friends Dont Steal from eachother!!!!! Especially when I have given you too much shit already.. Why the fuck are you stealing from me!!???!?!?!

Sabotage!!

Yes... Its bad.. But all is well...
My boyfriend basically fucked up my trip back to NYC last week. The day I was supposed to leave he never came home from work and yea... Needless to say I am still here.

The thing about it though, he thought I was going for a job interview. Why would you mess that up? I think he thinks I'll leave him here while I live a fabulous life in the city.. lol

We did make up though. Besides the disappearing with my car at the beginning of the week he has been really good taking care of things. Hes back to doing everything I tell him to do again.. ;)

But no real worries. My pots have been very good so far and I don't think I will have a problem as far as that goes.

Also I have not been feeling too well and don't really want to meet people while I feel this way. I will be good after next week tho...

I am going to make that journey tomorrow though. I am so stressed out at home right now so I am just going to go and make those initial meetings so that I can spark interest and see if there is anything worth pursuing.

One pot emailed me recently and kinda pissed me off. I have not spoken with him before. He was among my mass emailing and just now got back to me. Now this is the thing. I narrowed my search down to a certain income, age, and allowance range so that I could avoid all the idiots who cant afford what I am looking for. I realize that there are many who lie about how much they make but thats besides the point.

Firstly this guy's email said 'why didn't you put your ethnicity? I assume that you are black...' Uh ok.. Why point that out. And I put other because I am mixed... Why does it matter?? Then he goes on to say that my allowance range was 'too high' although he 'can afford it, almost every other girl is "cheaper"'... WTF kinda shit is that??

The thing about that bullshit is that his allowance range is listed the same as what I have on my profile. My range is $3,000-$5,000. If you want a cheap hooker then go and get one but I am by no means going to take anything less than what I have listed. Then he talks about what a 'catch' he is like there is no one better on the site.

Haha... On some real shit, I just think he thought my range was 'too much' because I am 'black' according to him. Even though he says, 'I have no problem with that as long as you don't have a problem that I am white.'

I don't care what color you are but why do you? And why would you respond if you do? I don't get it. I will meet if it gets that far though, because most people are an ass online only and once you get them face to face its a different story.

We will see how this all plays out... I cant postpone my sugar search any more than I have. Its not good.

Relationships... Ughh

My boyfriend is now showing his true colors. All of a sudden one day we just started fighting about every little thing. We have been fighting ever since. Why is it that things were so good for us up until now??

I think I am just going to call it quits now before it gets worse. There is nothing for me to hold on to. Hes young and dumb and needs to live his life. So its over. This way I can put my all into my sugar search and not feel bad about cheating on him.

See! Everything does work itself out in the end.

Competition!! And my thoughts... aka a ramble LOL

My god, there is so much more competition online then ever before!! I really find it funny that this is what most young girls aspire to now. I know that I am kinda slumped into that category but I was doing it way before songs like "Sponsor" and chicks like Kat Stacks came along.

Is this what everyone is going to do with themselves? No one is going to college anymore? Or are we just going to see the ugly girls excel academically, while all the pretty girls find sugar daddies...

Its sad because some of these girls, like Kat Stacks, glorify being a Hooker like its the cool thing to do. They make it sound like its bad to have a normal relationship where you are not getting paid for your pussy. They are not real sugar babies. One of Kat Stacks associates on Twitter made a comment that she made an easy $800 fucking a man that she claimed was her boyfriend...

They always make comments about how stupid someone was to 'give it up for free'...

There is a fine line between being a Sugar Baby and being a Prostitute and by watching and listening to people like this some girls can blur that line and not realize that what they are really doing is putting themselves out there as a cheap hooker.

All this to really say... Girls stick to your day job and leave it to the pros... Your fucking up my numbers... LMAO!! The SDs out there are bombarded with so many SB profiles I seem to be getting lost on the list at SA.com... I am however getting tons of pots from sugardaddie.com so that is making up for it... hehe...

This lifestyle is not cut out for everyone and many of these girls are also selling them selves short. And in turn making SDs feel like their girls are not worth what they ask for. I've had a few SDs that ask me what I want and when I tell them they are like 'thats too much... This is what I've done in previous arrangements'... This one guy told me that he used to call up his girl and meet her at a motel. There he would give her a 'gift' of $250 and they would get busy. 'Sometimes' for holidays and birthdays he would buy her a gift. That's it! and they would meet twice a month... That's $500 a month. That was the arrangement....

That is not what we are looking for here... And it is sad because I have come across many who treat this as pure prostitution and nothing else.

Peoples minds are tainted today.. There are only a few who truly understand the concept. And then you have the outsiders looking in who call us selfish whores and shit like that because we are stealing their men... Whatever. Like I would really want to take him from you. If a man is responding to my ad on one of these sites hes obviously lacking something at home anyway and will cheat on you regardless if its with me or someone else.

That goes for daily life as well. I had this guy who had a girlfriend but he just could not stop fucking me. He fell in love with me and his girlfriend thought I was tryna steal him from her. Little did she know that he was only with her because her family had tons of money and power. He really wanted to be with me but I had to let him go. The sex was good but the relationship was bad for me. I was having way too much fun making her cry every chance I got, leaving lingerie at his house, shit like that... Those were good times. But I am a better person than that. I just hate seeing stupid women who think that their man can do no wrong and its all the other woman's fault... Their man was forced to approach this woman, develop a relationship with her, and place their penis inside of this new woman's vagina... Yea he is innocent alright...

*sigh*

Yea, yea, I've gone on, and on, and on, with this subject. But what do you think? Have icons today corrupted the views of young girls and changed the way we all look at and think of SBs. Has the meaning and purpose of a SB changed because of people like Kat Stacks?
Thoughts??

❃Takelia Sugar Baby❃

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