Sunday, July 25, 2010

Cut out to be an Escort??

Being the person that I am I have done a little digging into the lives of high end escorts. This story has intrigued me... among others. ;)








I have done pay for play one time. If I would have gotten the kind of money that these women are talking about I would not have regret it in the least bit. Don't know if I would do it now but I am looking for a stable SD/SB relationship. I want to be sure of things such as my safety and my income. Even though I am putting myself at risk by meeting some of these men I do wonder what the future holds for me. Will I actually bring myself to actually become or at least dabble in being an Escort? I don't know but I cant say that I wouldn't if given the opportunity...

P.S. I love that Amazon sells every single book I have come across!! I'm adding this to my wish list. Love building my book collection.. If only these kids would stop ripping out pages... :}

This one looks interesting also...

My voice

Google is a wonderful thing. I have a great relationship with Google as should everyone else.

Because of google I am now not so afraid to give out my phone number!! Why you ask??

Because of Google Voice!

A little while back I had a few little stalker incidents both in real life and in the sugar world. Because of it I ended up getting a second phone and cutting my main phone off until I thought it was safe to use again. :P Didn't want to change/lose my number... Have had it since 2006. :) Plus I like my phone company even though their call in customer service sucks big hairy balls...

I used the second phone which was a cheap little pay per day/use type of thing with a cheap ass company. I hated it! Calls kept dropping. Txt msgs not sending or sending multiple times... It was horrible!

After catching up on my Favorite Sugar blogger Goal Digger I discovered Google Voice through one of her posts. The capabilities of this online application are wonderful and I can keep one phone and not have to worry too much about stalkers and crazy people!! Yay!! :P (or walking around with a cheap ass phone when I have a way better one, looking all suspicious...  :\ )

You can easily block people with a click of your mouse, which with my current phone company its a little more hard to do.

A great feature that I am loving, you can listen in on the voicemail someone leaves AS THEY ARE LEAVING IT!!! The voicemail is also transcribed into txt for you and you can listen to it online when you log into your account.

You can change you number just like that and can choose a number in any area code you like!! *sigh*

Since I made my account I like to pretend that I really live in NYC... hehe Hey I have a (347) area code. Why not?!? Pots don't know the difference.. lol

I love Google...

https://www.google.com/voice/

Saturday, July 17, 2010

iPad, Gift Daddy & another sugar party...

I'm messaging back and forth with this guy and I notice at the bottom of his email it says:

"sent from iPad"

OMG!! I want one soooooo damn bad!!! Ok, ok so I do already have the iPod Touch but whats wrong with having the same thing but just wayyyy bigger???? LMAO I did mention it to him and he said thats what a SD is for!! So maybe I can squeeze one out of him... hehehee

He also stated that he loves buying shoes for his SBs. Seems to have a huge shoe/foot fetish. Knew about designers and everything! Hmmm... a Gorgeous pair of Louboutins??? Could be in the near future for me... We will see. He seems like a strictly gift daddy which I would absolutely LOVE!! Not very good looking but who cares!!

He is up there in age, married, no kids, and very upfront and sweet as can be! I hope we click in person because we really hit it off online. We are scheduled to meet during the week sometime.

Another thing. I received an email on SA about being a Hostess at the next sugar party. I wasn't originally planning on attending this one because the price of the tickets are double what they were last time. But if I can get in for free then hey! Why not?

I wonder how many people got that email...

Friday, July 16, 2010

SD V. SA

I have noticed that men on sugardaddie.com are way more persistent then the men on seeking... Why is that?? I also find it funny that many of them are actually looking for real girlfriends ect... I always make it a point to ask what type of arrangement they are looking for.

I also had to LMFAO at the guy who said he just wanted me as a sex slave and wasn't going to give me any kind of compensation for it.. WOW! What world are you from?? Haven't heard from him since I told him how much I wanted monthly. Guess he couldn't afford it.. Oh well!

Quick update tho: I'm setting up dates for the weekend and hopefully during the week. It will be great if I can get some serious pots to meet up with. Would love to come home with a little cash on hand, u know.

Ps. I want this book!! Who wants to buy it for me?? :P
Ima get it sooner or later though. :)

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

I need new friends!!

I broke my friendship with T. If you read my blog then you may know that she is.. or was... my Best Friend. We did everything together. I did everything for her. But she took advantage and what really did it for me was when I called her to ask her a question she snapped at me and tried to cuss me out...

Over something very minor. Tryna show off in front of other people. She would never snap at me to my face cause she knows how I get down. She knows I would beat that ass easily... But thats besides the point. For her to come at me the way that she did after all the shit that I do for her, after all the money that she owes me, after how many years we have been best friends, its like a stab in the back on top of all the other stuff.

But oh well, this way I wont have to worry about anyone else anymore. The only issue I really have is that I lost my main clubbing buddy.

I need new friends!! I would actually love some friends that are in the sugar world... ;)

Or at least some friends that have their shit together. I refuse to hang out with broke ass people anymore cause all they try to do is tear you down. There is absolutely no need for anyone to hang around people who are not on their level because all they will try to do is tear you down.

And most of all Best Friends Dont Steal from eachother!!!!! Especially when I have given you too much shit already.. Why the fuck are you stealing from me!!???!?!?!

Monday, July 12, 2010

Sabotage!!

Yes... Its bad.. But all is well...
My boyfriend basically fucked up my trip back to NYC last week. The day I was supposed to leave he never came home from work and yea... Needless to say I am still here.

The thing about it though, he thought I was going for a job interview. Why would you mess that up? I think he thinks I'll leave him here while I live a fabulous life in the city.. lol

We did make up though. Besides the disappearing with my car at the beginning of the week he has been really good taking care of things. Hes back to doing everything I tell him to do again.. ;)

But no real worries. My pots have been very good so far and I don't think I will have a problem as far as that goes.

Also I have not been feeling too well and don't really want to meet people while I feel this way. I will be good after next week tho...

I am going to make that journey tomorrow though. I am so stressed out at home right now so I am just going to go and make those initial meetings so that I can spark interest and see if there is anything worth pursuing.

One pot emailed me recently and kinda pissed me off. I have not spoken with him before. He was among my mass emailing and just now got back to me. Now this is the thing. I narrowed my search down to a certain income, age, and allowance range so that I could avoid all the idiots who cant afford what I am looking for. I realize that there are many who lie about how much they make but thats besides the point.

Firstly this guy's email said 'why didn't you put your ethnicity? I assume that you are black...' Uh ok.. Why point that out. And I put other because I am mixed... Why does it matter?? Then he goes on to say that my allowance range was 'too high' although he 'can afford it, almost every other girl is "cheaper"'... WTF kinda shit is that??

The thing about that bullshit is that his allowance range is listed the same as what I have on my profile. My range is $3,000-$5,000. If you want a cheap hooker then go and get one but I am by no means going to take anything less than what I have listed. Then he talks about what a 'catch' he is like there is no one better on the site.

Haha... On some real shit, I just think he thought my range was 'too much' because I am 'black' according to him. Even though he says, 'I have no problem with that as long as you don't have a problem that I am white.'

I don't care what color you are but why do you? And why would you respond if you do? I don't get it. I will meet if it gets that far though, because most people are an ass online only and once you get them face to face its a different story.

We will see how this all plays out... I cant postpone my sugar search any more than I have. Its not good.

Monday, July 5, 2010

Relationships... Ughh

My boyfriend is now showing his true colors. All of a sudden one day we just started fighting about every little thing. We have been fighting ever since. Why is it that things were so good for us up until now??

I think I am just going to call it quits now before it gets worse. There is nothing for me to hold on to. Hes young and dumb and needs to live his life. So its over. This way I can put my all into my sugar search and not feel bad about cheating on him.

See! Everything does work itself out in the end.

Saturday, July 3, 2010

Competition!! And my thoughts... aka a ramble LOL

My god, there is so much more competition online then ever before!! I really find it funny that this is what most young girls aspire to now. I know that I am kinda slumped into that category but I was doing it way before songs like "Sponsor" and chicks like Kat Stacks came along.

Is this what everyone is going to do with themselves? No one is going to college anymore? Or are we just going to see the ugly girls excel academically, while all the pretty girls find sugar daddies...

Its sad because some of these girls, like Kat Stacks, glorify being a Hooker like its the cool thing to do. They make it sound like its bad to have a normal relationship where you are not getting paid for your pussy. They are not real sugar babies. One of Kat Stacks associates on Twitter made a comment that she made an easy $800 fucking a man that she claimed was her boyfriend...

They always make comments about how stupid someone was to 'give it up for free'...

There is a fine line between being a Sugar Baby and being a Prostitute and by watching and listening to people like this some girls can blur that line and not realize that what they are really doing is putting themselves out there as a cheap hooker.

All this to really say... Girls stick to your day job and leave it to the pros... Your fucking up my numbers... LMAO!! The SDs out there are bombarded with so many SB profiles I seem to be getting lost on the list at SA.com... I am however getting tons of pots from sugardaddie.com so that is making up for it... hehe...

This lifestyle is not cut out for everyone and many of these girls are also selling them selves short. And in turn making SDs feel like their girls are not worth what they ask for. I've had a few SDs that ask me what I want and when I tell them they are like 'thats too much... This is what I've done in previous arrangements'... This one guy told me that he used to call up his girl and meet her at a motel. There he would give her a 'gift' of $250 and they would get busy. 'Sometimes' for holidays and birthdays he would buy her a gift. That's it! and they would meet twice a month... That's $500 a month. That was the arrangement....

That is not what we are looking for here... And it is sad because I have come across many who treat this as pure prostitution and nothing else.

Peoples minds are tainted today.. There are only a few who truly understand the concept. And then you have the outsiders looking in who call us selfish whores and shit like that because we are stealing their men... Whatever. Like I would really want to take him from you. If a man is responding to my ad on one of these sites hes obviously lacking something at home anyway and will cheat on you regardless if its with me or someone else.

That goes for daily life as well. I had this guy who had a girlfriend but he just could not stop fucking me. He fell in love with me and his girlfriend thought I was tryna steal him from her. Little did she know that he was only with her because her family had tons of money and power. He really wanted to be with me but I had to let him go. The sex was good but the relationship was bad for me. I was having way too much fun making her cry every chance I got, leaving lingerie at his house, shit like that... Those were good times. But I am a better person than that. I just hate seeing stupid women who think that their man can do no wrong and its all the other woman's fault... Their man was forced to approach this woman, develop a relationship with her, and place their penis inside of this new woman's vagina... Yea he is innocent alright...

*sigh*

Yea, yea, I've gone on, and on, and on, with this subject. But what do you think? Have icons today corrupted the views of young girls and changed the way we all look at and think of SBs. Has the meaning and purpose of a SB changed because of people like Kat Stacks?
Thoughts??

❃Takelia Sugar Baby❃

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