My 3 Guys

So it has been about a month since I signed up for AM. I have not been on the site in 2 weeks. Let me tell you why.

The week before this past week I went on a date with 3 guys and out of all the other guys I have met and spoken with these guys are my top pick so far. They are all EXTREMELY different!

One guy is Irish, much older, very classy and high end. He knows his designers, which is Awesome!! And his situation is very unique and interesting. I will post more on that later so I dont jinx it. ;)

The second guy is Jewish, short, blunt and to the point. I like that. He knows what he wants and he goes for it. This is the guy who forgot his wifes birthday.
I am kinda on the fence with him because he keeps trying to haggle me down.... or Jew me down as they say. I mean what we agreed on is actually very good but when I say 5 he says 3. I am a little concerned that this will cause issues down the line for me financially. We will see.

The third guy is Black. I am loving him! He is very cute, young... Well hes almost 40 so not young to some. Hes just looking for someone to date and have a great time with. He is very normal, which I am loving. I would actually date him in a normal setting if he wasnt married. He was a little nervous on our first meeting but it went very well. He took me to this very classy Italian restaurant in Midtown. We had a Great time.

I was a little concerned at one point because you know how sometimes you meet these guys and no matter how good you look or how good you were in bed or whatever, you do not hear from them again? Well after we met I was actually out of touch with each of them at one point or another for days at a time. Turns out they each travel on the weekends!! I think I dealt with that a lot because those guys came from SA and places like that. Classless.


Looks like I will have my weekends free and clear!

I have tons of msgs on AM and I am dreading logging on and checking them. If one guy falls through then I am going to look for a replacement. This way I wont hurt financially if one or 2 of them does not come through for me. Plus I like to juggle my men. Not many can keep up anyway.

So in summary, I am dating 3 guys, 3 monthly allowances, each of them is 10yrs older then the next. I guess 3 is my lucky number!

These guys are too funny.

I had to post this.

One of the guys I met last week. Real sweetheart. Blunt and to the point just like I like it. Monthly allowance, which we did set an good amount, will talk about that later.

Anyway, we set a date for this week and had to cancel last minute.

Reason why is that the day we scheduled for just happened to be his wifes birthday!!

How is it that you dont remember something like that?? Hilarious!!

Shows how much he thinks about his wife, or maybe when we met and scheduled he was a little too wrapped up in me that he forgot about his wife completely... lmao

In between dates.

I just got out from a Lunch date and I am excited! This guy was too cute and exactly what I am looking for. We had great conversation and I had him hard as a rock the entire time! It was so funny!

I loved every bit of him! He is a short(my height) Jewish guy. I thought he was going to be much bigger because of his pictures, but to my surprise he was just the right size.

He wants to start the arrangement with me right away! His allowance is $3g a month. Not bad. Will be meeting at the most once a week. Good with me! I left the date with cash in my pocket, a smile on both our faces and wood in his pants. Just how I like it! We will be meeting again next week.

Now I am getting ready for another date later on in Midtown. I cant wait to see this guy! He looks like Morris Chestnut!!!!!!!! Fine as hell! According to his pics...

There is no way my day can get any better!! More details later!

Disgusted.

Completely.

I already posted about how escorts are portrayed by the media but after watching the lastest episode of Law&Order: SVU I'm even more disgusted.

First of all, they heard the word sugar baby and immediately said "how is this still legal", "These women are being exploited", "they are trading sex for money", blah blah blah...

Ughh...

Then as the show went on they went to speak about women being desperate, glorified prostitute, do anything for the money. To top it off the chick who was actually a part of the website got a man to unknowingly rape her roommate out of jealousy!!

Seriously??

Come on!

Why do these people continue with all these horrible stereotypes??

I have gotten money from quite few SDs without sleeping with them! It is not a fucking transaction!!

Im so tired of it.

I dont understand why people cant grow up and let go of all these stereotypes!! Sex Trafficking isa terrible thing but it is NOT THE SAME!!

Everyone is not in the same category!!

UGHH

I guess I need to let it go because the way people think will never change. At least not in my life time...

& The Idiots descend upon me... On 5th Ave!

So yesterday I had a couple dates. The first one went well, being that I  knew how it was going to turn out and it did.

Basically he cant really do the monthly allowance thing but wants a travel buddy every now and then. We will see if I go through with that.


The next date went just as I thought it would as well. Which is Awesome! He wants exactly what I want, monthly allowance, when we are not together we dont exist, shopping, the whole nine. He is just what I am looking for. We will be meeting up again next weekend to speak and finalize things. But this is just the beginning.

After I left this date, which mind you was at a very nice, classy french restaurant in East Midtown, I ran into this real estate broker. He was very pushy dispite me denying him multiple times. I could see he was not going to quit so I said what the hell.

Why do some guys assume that when a pretty girl says "no" that is code for "try harder"???

He suggested lunch. Ok. Then out of nowhere we walk up to this very nice apartment building on 5th ave and he says why dont we grab some wine before we go up and we can order some chinese...

WTF??

I tell him that there is no way in hell I am coming up to his place 2 minutes after we met. Is this guy fucking crazy???

Still pushing trying to get me upstairs, I did end up waiting in the lobby. Just as I decided to leave he came back down. He suggested we go to some crappy diner and after just coming out of this high end  restaurant I said hell no. He asked if I liked Red Lobster...

Well yes I do like Red Lobster, but that is not somewhere I am going to go on a first date with someone your age. Red Lobster is where I would go with friends or family, or even on a date with someone my age. Never with a pot.

I spotted a nice place on 6th ave and we went in for a glass of wine. During the conversation I realized increasingly how much of an idiot he was. His bad relationship with his ex-wife and son. He likes young girls because hes "young at heart". How about "immature", "childish"??

This is the part that made me get up and leave:

When he first approached me I mentioned that he could not afford me. When he brought it up again during our conversation, I told him that I require $5,000 a month and that I just got out of a date who is offering me that and then some.

He says to me. "I cant afford that, maybe that guy just feels bad for you..."


Are you FUCKING Crazy!!!

Enough said.

Why do people always try to turn something positive into a negative.

That was a good half hr of my life completely wasted with that fool. ughh... I wont do that again. I have plenty of other more interesting men fighting for my attention.

Anyway, I have 3 more dates next week and I will give these guys names once I get to know them better. I just hope I'm not jinxing the one that I already have. He just might be the one!

Am I not clear??

In my sugar search on this new site there are tons of pots and there are tons of guys who are just looking for a quick fuck... Or a free one.

Nothing in this world is free.

I have it clearly stated in my profile that I am looking for an arrangement, something mutually beneficial, and a sugar daddy. Why are guys contacting me and completely ignoring this.

One guy, very sweet, invited me to go on a trip with him. He was going to cover my travel expenses, the hotel, food. But that is where is ended. There was no mention of anything else. No shopping, allowance. He just wanted someone to come and fuck him. Guess he thought it might be cheaper than an escort.

I turned him down.

Another has been emailing me over the past few days and he actually is a little annoying. One of those guys who try too hard to be funny. He asked me if I wanted to meet and I asked him if he was aware of what I was looking for, he replied back with an entire slew of weird kinky sexual experiences he has experienced and that he thinks I might be into. WTF.

What makes any of these guys think I would need to look up a married man to do these things with?

A fuck buddy is not hard for me to come by.

I told him that he was completely off base and that I was looking for an arrangement. lol I have not heard from him since....

Guys Please Read The Profile!!!!

Not feeling it.

The guy I flaked out on the other day contacted me and seriously wants to meet. I agreed and scheduled for today. But after speaking with him a few times I'm really not feeling him.

Reason being, everytime I spoke to him all he wants to talk about is sex. How good he is going to make me feel. What turns him on. What turns me on. What am I going to do to him when I see him. How much I am going to like it. Oh and lets not forget the fact that he wants me to send him numerous nude pics to hold him over till we meet.

So annoying!!

I dont talk about sex like that on the phone. It does not turn me on one bit, unless I really like someone and ONLY if I think he has a hot body. Why would it turn me on to fantasize about you?? eww.. I am not entertaining this one bit.

Then add to the fact the amount of time it will take me to travel to him. He lives no where near me!! And when I asked if he could come to the city to see me he said not often and not any time soon. Why should I go out of my way to travel all that way on a first meeting? He should at least come half way!

Oh yea and the amount it will cost me to get there is also ridiculous! Yes, he did offer to pay my transportation fees but, so what? I still have to pay that up front. And what if he flakes out on me and no shows... Given how much he has been calling me I think that is unlikely. But still.

The thing that is really bothering me is every time I try to bring up what the arrangement will be, we briefly speak about how often we will meet and then he changes the subject back to sex...

He wants pay for play and when I attempt to go into detail it never gets that far. He has stated his "allowance" but its not satisfying me. I mean, its not low, but I want more based on what he wants and what I will have to do (travel..) to get it. He is going to have to double it at the very least to make it worth while for me.

Ughhh

I cant do it.

I have re-evaluated my sugar search and I know exactly what I want and yes I am an escort, but I want that part of my life to be distinctively different.  I will not do any pay for play with the SDs because I can easily do that escorting. Why would I spend so much time talking to, meeting and entertaining pots just for p4p??

Im not here to spend my time waiting around for some man, being at his beck and call. When I escort we work on MY time, I tell them when and where. Everything is on MY terms, not theirs. Why should I give that up?

I mean, if the guy was just that fine and took care of ALL my financial needs completely I wouldn't have a huge issue, but at this point, its not there.

I think Im going to call this guy and give him some crazy excuse why I cant meet him and try to seriously speak with him about the allowance situation and travel. I would prefer our first meeting to be at a nice restaurant in the city with great food and wine and good conversation. Not in some hotel getting our rocks off...

But I should probably say fuck this guy because I just checked my inbox on AM and yea.. over 300 new msgs... I am overwhelmed! to say the least, by the number of guys trying to get my attention!! I had to disable my chat because I was speaking with so many guys at one time I couldnt keep track of who was who!!

I gotta get to work replying to these emails! 

Ughh! He has been blowing up my phone all day.

I have a date with this hot guy who reminds me of a young but much better looking Hulk Hogan.. lol Minus all the steroids and overly tanned skin and bleach blonde hair...

What if it really was the hulk ?? LMAO